Dealing with a miscarriage



Dear Sister,

I need your advice. I recently had a sudden miscarriage. I am heartbroken because it was unexpected. Also, I am finding it difficult to get over it. I feel like I have failed and that is all my fault, however I don’t think I could have done anything different. I just don’t understand that if children are a blessing of God, why was my blessing taken away? Please help me.

3 Scriptures that inspired this poem:
GAL. 6:2 “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (KJV)
1 THESS. 5:11 “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up as you are already doing.” (HCSB)
HEB. 10:24 “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works.” (NKJV)

The horrible pain you must be feeling; unfortunately I have felt too.
My heart cries out to God, as I reach out to console you.
I know all about your confusion, and the unanswered questions you have.
I know you feel all alone, and are devastatingly sad.
I know of your anger, and the bitterness deep down inside:
That showed up unexpectedly when your child has died.
I know of the hurt and pain, that’s so difficult to bear.
I know of the guilt, that leaves you in despair.
You may even deal with envy, who stays silent most of the time;
Until jealousy from grief and sorrow, begins to make that painful climb.
But you are NOT alone, and have Women who TRULY Understand.
The “WOUNDED MOTHERS” Support Group is here extending a Loving, Helping Hand!

We, “WOUNDED MOTHERS” Must stick together, come together, help support and uplift one another; because so many women fall in deep depression, self-medicate in various ways, even take our own lives when our children die. Only other Women who have been there, KNOW what you are going through, what you will deal with, and can SHARE with you how you can find your ‘life after death.’ ☺

WOUNDED MOTHERS” Support Group of the “Systas, United” in CHRIST Women’s Ministry

I have a video on my YouTube channel called 1 miscarriage 1 Abortion. I hope it could help her

From DesireToInspireMums

Prayer for understanding and accepting the will of God. May God give abundant peace in place of grief

So, so sorry for your heartbreak. Those of us who’ve experienced it know what you’re going through and are praying for you. God never fails His children, His will is perfect, and His love for you is unending. Pray for strength and understanding and He will bring you to a place of peace. I wrote about my experience in the blog post, When God Says. Check my site,, then search for that post. Love to you…

May God comfort you and know that the plans He has for you are still good. Sometimes, things happen and we do not understand why. But God will compensate you for your loss and I know He will use it to bring glory to His name. Be encouraged.

4 thoughts on “Dealing with a miscarriage

  1. Dear Pearl Sisters,
    Thank you for the way you seek to address the various hurts and negative scenarios experienced by women and offer them comfort and biblical counsel.
    May God continue to bless and expand your ministry.

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