Dear Sister,

Me and my boyfriend having been dating for a year now .I have been asking God for clarity whether he is my husband or not. We do talk about marriage sometimes but I do want to force him and I don’t want to go outside of the will of God. I did have a dream once when we got married but im not sure if this was because I desire it or whether it was confirmation of God. I was wondering if you could advice me on how I could get clarity on this matter. Thanks.

Hopefully your friendship / courtship involves time spent in prayer together. Praying for one another shows a vulnerability and a willingness to share the important issues of life with each other. Also reading God’s Word together. Not in a forced way but because your both focused on Him and obedience to His Word is another common factor. Praying for guidance in your quiet time.